J.?

By the way, J. has been showing a definite increase in attentionage to me lately.  As in going out of his way to make sure we happen to meet up at least twice a day, making excuses for reasons we need to get together (really, J., you could have totally e-mailed me those files, it was NOT necessary to rendezvous so you could loan me your USB drive), pushing for us to go out for whatever meal happens to be closest at any point when we see each other.  What's up with this? Doesn't he have something more worthwhile to do with his time, like studying, washing the car, organizing his socks? Why do guys have to try to make things so complicated?   He would be extremely desirable IF we weren't such good friends already.  Oh yeah, and IF I didn't have that teensy little huge aversion to addressing feelings, emotions, etc.   Maybe I am reading too much into the whole situation.  I have NO TIME for drama right now, none whatsoever. Blah.